Saturday, February 4, 2012

How can I change my attitude? (details and example inside)?

Ok generally I'm not a rude person and I respect everyone fairly as long as I;m treated in the same aspects. However, I do honestly believe that I have a really bad attitude or something because most of the time when people ask me harmless questions, i get p.o.'d and usually have thoughts and actions of extreme sarcasm. Example:

The other night I was in a chicken shack, this was at about 1:30am. This particular chicken shack sells pizza amongst other things. It just so happens that I got the last slice before closing (they close at 2am). So I'm in there eating my slice and a dude comes in asking for pizza. The gu behind the counter said "I'm sorry we don't have anymore pizza for the night". The customer was like "Aww man I really wanted some pizza" and went into this whole ordeal about how he was craving pizza and blah blah blah.



So I'm folding my pizza and take a bite, when he turns to me and says "You got the last slice of pizza?"....(duh)



My natural instinct to something like that is almost always negative, whereas my response was "NO this is a magical cheeseburger disguised as a slice of pizza". I coulda just smiled and said "Yeah" or something simple. But It wasn't my natural reaction.



I wanna change my attitude because I dont want people to think I'm mean and stuff like that. On the other hand its like I just cant change because it feels so natural to be that way. It's like, if I deem your questions or statements stupid, then I'm gonna make you feel really stupid.



Is there hope? My mother suggested "Anger Management"....I dont know how I feel about that.How can I change my attitude? (details and example inside)?
Well you are in control of what you do. Even if it's hard to control the sarcasm it is possible. I know that for me in my personal experience I have a temper and sometimes would snap at people when they are being stupid but I just kept thinking " I can control my actions." Because it was almost like a reaction and not something I could control. But I could. I suggest that you just keep trying. Every time you answer sarcastically just think..."Next time I won't say anything until I think before speaking." And pretty soon when occasions arrise where you want to speak sarcastically, you will be able to pause and say something less offensive.How can I change my attitude? (details and example inside)?
i'm exactly like that.

except i try to hold back the sarcastic comment most of the time.

unless im in a bad mood %26amp; don't give a shitt what anyone thinks.How can I change my attitude? (details and example inside)?
dang boy you seriously need them classes
think before you speak...

or hold yourself at a higher esteem than everyone else and not give a **** what they think...

life is happier w/ the latter...
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