HELP PLEASE?!?!??!?!?!!?!!?!?

Ok so my best friends little sister I'm so worried about her please read!!



She's 12 and one month.



5'1 and 89 pounds.



Ate 944 calories yesterday, but she played a lot of Wii sports yesterday (tennis,boxing, bowling and a little bit of baseball) for like 45 minutes.



Then she did all this!!!!- 360 squats

175 push ups

2000 crunches!!! Not all at a time, throughout the course of the day!



Is she anorexic?? She also looks up "pro-Ana Tumblr" on her laptop for "inspiration"



Will she drop an insane amount of weight?? I'm so nervous for her and so is my best friend?!?! She says she's fat and ugly all the time and her wallpaper is from the 999 Reasons why Tumblr page!



Also, if she does have an eating disorder how can we hide it because she had one b4 (not this extreme) when she was 9-10 and her parents FREAKED OUT at her because they had to pay a bunch of nutritionalist bills even when she didn't want to gain weight. She was in the 90's for a good 4-6 months and she lost weight again! And BTW I don't want to deny she has an eating disorder, if she does have one my friend and I will get her help FOR SURE!! We just can't have her parents know because I dont want her to get in trouble



She also constantly compares herself to me because I'm 23, 5'6.5 and 122 pounds...but I don't exercise at all LOL I have pizza rolls and McDonalds all the time! I guess I'm naturally skinny?! She says she wants my thigh gap really badly.



What's wrong with her?!HELP PLEASE?!?!??!?!?!!?!!?!?
Most anorexia females have body fat get a fat pinch test done and if her body fat is low I doubt she's anorexic. Also if your best friends , even though you can eat what you like and not put weight on, try not to tell her that or try to eat something together that's healthier .HELP PLEASE?!?!??!?!?!!?!!?!?
it doesn't sound good. It better if her parent know, because they helped last time. Your friend could make her self very very sick.HELP PLEASE?!?!??!?!?!!?!!?!?
okay, I know someone like this. Nothing is wrong with her, she just thinks she is over weight, she looks in the mirror and sees more weight than anyone else. This is because she is letting her thoughts take over and making her see things that are not really there. 944 calories is not a lot but it is still something. and she is on the Wii doing sports meaning she is active. That is a really good thing. If you are still really worried, take her to one side and tell her you have noticed she is exercising a lot and cutting down on her food, ask her if there is anything wrong, and swear to her that you will not tell any one. if she says she is anorexic then tell her that she is not over weight and she is perfect. if she doesn't listen tell her to cut down on her food but not by a dramatic amount because before she knows it she will be weak and not be able to do anything, she will be emotional, the whole lot. and then she will get into the habit of not eating. and her parents will figure it out and will freak out again.

Tell her she is fine the way she is, she can still do exercise but she cannot cut down dramatically on food, because it will make her really ill.
she sounds like she has a problem. but i know this from experience. you cant hlp people that don't want to be helped. she is likely delusional. she most likely thinks that she still needs to loose weight. and that her idea of beautiful is really just skin and bones. it is so hard. that's all you can really do. tell her that even thought it is pain full now it only gets worse, and tell her that her life will never be the same. the sooner you stop the more back to normal you can get. i know this from experience. its always in the back of my mind even if i don't act on my thoughts its always there.



now for you guys. you have to understand that anorexia is a lot like an addiction. its a love hate relationship. you fast, then the next day when you weigh in your on top of the world, but that usually doesn't last long so you fast again not only because it makes you feel good but also because your also trying to keep your weight off... and it just snowballs from there the emotions get deeper and the circumstance become more desperate.



one last thing you must understand is that we are all different. no two eating disordered people are the exact same. because this is a mental disease and are brains are all different.