I am severely shy, and it makes me miserable. I cannot talk to anyone new, and I can barely talk to "close" friends. I have a boyfriend, whom I love very much. And he's pretty much the only person I'm 100% fine with.
Some of the extreme:
I will not use the vending machines at college, because they make loud noise and I don't want to draw attention to myself.
I've been in college for a few weeks now and still do not talk to anyone.
I can't order pizza.
I hate going into stores to buy anything, or going into the bank to deposit money. It makes me very nervous.
When anyone new tries talking to me, I find it extremely difficult to keep the conversation going. My face turns red, and I start shaking and sweating.
I don't know what's wrong with me. I've been through a lot in my life, but I shouldn't be this way. I'm smart, I'm really nice; to everyone, really. I just am scared to death of everyone and I don't know what I can do to fix it. How do I break out of my shell?
Please help. I'm so lonely and depressed all the time and I hate it. I just need to know how to talk to people..How do I get over my shyness?
Go see a psychiatrist. I was exactly like this for the longest time but then I got sick of it and went and got help and now I'm perfectly fine(:How do I get over my shyness?
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Hello.
I have read your question and I think I understand your situation, Alex Mear. I am writing this response to you and to others who have similar problems.
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