Is my best friend jealous?

Hey folks. Yeah I'm a teenager girl, well actually not exactly yet, I will in a few months. I'm having some friend problems. Worse, best friend problems. Now hold on to your computer as I take you through a ride. Ha ha jk jk it's not that extreme, ha ha it makes me sound like I'm going to tell you a murder story. Which is totally creepy. Anywaysssss, listen please. Or read, whatever works for you.





My best friend. I call our story the Jock and the Loner. (SO original). It doesn't even really have anything to do with our labels actually...





The first thing my best friend ever said to me, was an insult. We met after I had come back from my "break" (the time I took off when my mother died). I had this Hello Kitty bag (I figured out it was ugly a few days ago lol!), and my best friend (she wasn't at the time) turned around and asked in a mean voice "Is that a backpack or a purse" and I snapped "It's whatever I want it to be". I KNOW I KNOW. So pathetic middle school fight. Anyways, after meeting up through a friend (That sounds weird), we became best friends.








Ok so it's 8th grade and my friend has been weird ever since...


There was this boy she liked(still likes) in our homeroom. She texted him, and (because I was bored) started texting him. Yeah he's ok to talk to. Anyways, my best friend HAD to (she always does this!), ask him if he though I was cute. He said not really, and I was a 5. Ugh. So I whined to my best friend I was ugly and she's just like "I'll tell you something that proves you're not ugly", then she told me that she gets jealous everytime I text that guy because she thinks one day he will like me. O.O. Alrighty. ...





The current story now. I think she wants EVERYONE to hate me AND I think she's been lieing to me!!! A. They where girls who somewhat bullied me this year, and she didn't stand up for me, instead she said that she actually talked to them. Saying they called me all this stuff, etc. She also said she's friends with the girls who bullied me! (But they've stopped, thank god.). I really think she lied to me when she said "they came up to me and said" (A bunch of ****).





B. LIKE EVERY GUY WE TALK TO. She asks "Don't you think she's cute" She = me. Of course the guy goes "NOOOO". -.-. Ugh. It's annoying. Like she WANTS to hear people call me ugly.





C. I think she wants people to hate me. Evidence:





This other friend of ours was saying to this other friend of ours that her pizza looked disgusting and gross. I immediatly was like "Go pick on someone else's food". The friend who was being irritating, didn't hear me. So my best friend was like "Didn't you hear her? She said go pick on someone else's food", the friend didn't hear her again, she actually reached over and said that again to her. I'm just like WHAT THE HELL? Then a few days later (TODAY):





We're walking down the hall and the topic of porn popped up. I'm just like "Hmmm, I've never seen two girls one cup, some people suggested it to me... but..." (I know, ha ha). She's just like "OMG YOU'RE A LESBIAN", I just rolled my eyes. She's always accusing me of being a lesbian. Like if I'm like "She's pretty", she's like "LESBIAN". I'm straight. Born that way. (Nothing against anyone who is lesbian, as a matter of fact, my best friend uses it like an insult and I get quite mad that she uses something like that for an insult). So anyways, she ran up to another friend and was like "Yeah she said she wants to watch two girls one cup" and she kept repeating that.








PLUS. She can just be a random ***** once and a while.











So, if you've read the whole thing. Is she jealous, do she hate me? What do you think. We're both (almost) teenage girls in middle school.





SORRY FOR ALL THE WRITING.|||Man your all over the place. Learn how to write.|||maybe you should ask her, shes the only one that would know the answer to your question|||It is hard for anyone to know why she is being this way, unless you ask her yourself. It is unfair that she is treating you like this, and does not sound like much of a friend at all. It would be good to talk to her outside of school, and see what her problem is. If that does not help, then see if a school counselor can help mediate in this situation. You do not deserve to deal with this form of drama, and it should come to an end. You can even talk to your parents to see if they can help you talk to this young lady, and her parents about how she is acting. Keep in mind that life will not always be this difficult, and you will get through this.





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1-800-448-3000|||Dear Highpowe





Your friend is actually jealous of you. Believe it or not. She really thinks by always putting you in uncomfortable positions and on the spot. Not to mention putting innocent bystanders on the spot as well, She thinks by getting others to see you in a negative way, that this will actually make herself more attractive. She couldn't be more wrong. I don't know what you look like. But hanging with her now is going to make you look and sound as bad as she is. I would ditch this girl now and fast. I wouldn't turn around to even take a second glance at the garbage you will be leaving behind. Don't allow her another second into your life and continue trashing it at your expense. Please drop this girl from your life. This isn't what friends do to other friends, let alone other people. She sounds like a complete ***.





Good luck,





Marseille|||Yeah i agree you should talk to her,


but to me she doesn't sound like a good friend AT ALL.


She sounds like a dumb *** you shouldn't be friends with her anymore i'm sure you could find someone else to be friends with that doesn't stress you.|||I think shes Jealous %26amp; shes making stuff up your best friends can sometimes be your worst enemies you need to maybe distance yourself from her because friends are supposed to make you feel less stressed %26amp; shes obviously stressing you more !|||I think she's turning in to a *****...is she on any kinda medication cause if she is that could be a side effect......anyway i kinda had the same problem with you with my (EX Best Mate)....





I think she's trying to put you down %26amp; make you feel bad about yourself.....


as for the Hello Kitty Bag i think she was jealous....for the food thing i have no idea about that....there might be something bugging her......you should ask her.





And as for the Lesbian thing ......i had the same problem like you when i was in college with my best mate ( she's an Ex Best Mate, i haven't seen her in 4 years)....anyway when we were in college


there was this guy we both kinda liked him and he asked out....she would always blank me out and pay attention to him 24/7....when he was going out with her he asked her if "I was a lesbian"....and you know the answer to that....she didn't correct him. I'm NOT a Lesbian!.....the reason he asked her was cause her %26amp; i would hang out 24/7 ( cause we have no other mates)....and when we went to the toilets she came in with me to make sure i don't have a seizure ( cause i'm epileptic)....and that's the reason everybody thought i was a lesbian.





As for the mate thing they were bullying i think she want's to hang around with them cause she might think they're cool or something....if she's talking to other people she might want to make new friends ( just a thought) i'm sure she'll won't.... ( when my ex best mate met new people i was Phased Out)....as i was saying....i think she's trying to be better than you at things - like she's in compition with you. If she doesn't stop this try and make new friends....also talk to your mum about this situation...cause you never know your mum might have been in the same situation as you..





Also talk to your mate cause they're could be something bugging her...





I hope this helps..|||Maybe!!?? she probally is just jealous or maybe shes just mean I dont think anybody needs a friend that treats them that way!!?? jealous or NOT shes just sounds very mean sHall I SAY RUDE!!?? im not trying to but in or anything but you did ask so thats my OPINION HOPE THAT HELPS BYE!|||This girl seems to have some issues.. Like her own insecurities.. Its like this is her temporary relief.. I dont think she hates you.. I dont think this has much to do with you really. I think its just shes chosen you to aggravate a little. Her saying about lesbians? ok, think of it this way.. If she really thought you were a lesbian... what would it say about her wanting to be around you all the time???





No matter what the situation is, shes young and shes trying to find herself.. She seems to have insecurities and a want for center of attention... I dont think she tries to hurt your feelings.. But she isnt really showing any signs of caring either... I would try to avoid her for a while.. You must think the way shes acting makes her kind of weird lol.. She could be slightly jealous and envious that you know who you are and you have an opinion... to me the way you talk, you have confidence.. She doesnt...