Thursday, February 16, 2012

Help decipher guy language?

One of my best friends is dating this guy; they've been together for almost a year. She tells me everything. They seem to love each other very much (they're the cutest couple I know) and they seem to not fight much, otherwise I would've heard about it. (lol)



Today, she asked me what I thought about what happened recently. She told me that her bf said he was hanging out with the guys, but he was with some unknown girl. She found out by checking his text msgs (he does that too; they do that... nothing really suspicious). She told me that the text said they were hanging out at like a mall or something, the girl texted him to see if he got home ok, and that they had pizza earlier during the week. She read these and kicked him out (he came over after hanging out with "the guys" and fell asleep while watching tv).



I'm trying to comfort her, but I really don't know what to say. So what's up?



Answers coming from the male species would be of extreme help. :]Help decipher guy language?
I don't know. If I was her I'd automatically assume that he was cheating on me because I am seriously into having to tell the truth about everything every time. What I mean by that is, if my boyfriend does not tell me something and it happens I usually get really angry about it. Though I think that she should confront him about it, keep in mind she should be suspicious because she has every right to do so. If he says that shes just a friend, I recommend telling your friend to keep on her toes. You never know what will happen. Because friends can become something more.
how old are they? that's important...

but sounds like teen trouble...

so I'd say he's getting bored...

if they're open to read each other's text msgs, then she should ask him...

don't comfort her... be a friendHelp decipher guy language?
well that does mean he is cheating on her. her boyfriend and that "unknown" chick could actually be friends. it would probably be best if ur friend talks to her boyfriend about it and quite possibly the "unknown" girl and see what they say first before assuming. who knows they could friends and he could have forgot to mention it.
hes cheating on herHelp decipher guy language?
There is no such thing as guy-girl friends at that age, a guy is always in it for something, dosent have to be sex or because he wants to cheat though. But he is in it for something...
I think he's either cheating or about to start. There could be a legit reason, but in that case why the secrecy?



The only thing really to do is for her to find out what happened. He should explain. But it looks bad.

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