My Mom is keeping us apart?

I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year now. My mom hated him since day one. But now she is going to the extreme to keep us apart. (we are both 16 and leave around the corner form each other) She has threaten to put him in jail if he comes around me and I have to sneak and talk to him. I don鈥檛 think that this is fair because I鈥檓 happy with him and I would think that my happiness would be enough for her but she won鈥檛 rest until she is sure that we are apart, like to day for instance I was supposed to stay after school but I didn鈥檛 because this was the only way I could see my boyfriend so him and I went to home run in for pizza and she came up there and snatched me up and made me go home. I don鈥檛 understand why she hates him so muck she says he is no good but I don鈥檛 think so. I wish she would just let me leave my life. What should I do? I have his number under a different name in my phone so she wont know that I am talking to him. I am sick of hiding it I want her to accepted it.My Mom is keeping us apart?
okay , i am in this situation myself , and i tell you this don't just let him go because your mom said so



yeah okay its your mom ?!?!

but things like this is going to happen and so you would have to prove to her that this is what you want so she needs to get that through her head



now if you cant see your self with this guy for a long time then i suggest you keep it good with your mother
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Frankly, I say you listen to your mother for your's and his best interests. You're 16, focus on your schoolwork. Why the hell are you going around sneaking with a young man? Are you mental? Gosh, I tell you.........kids these days.
Kill her..... :P Jk

ASK HER! No secrets in the family! Just do what your heart says!!!!My Mom is keeping us apart?
o_o if he didn't hurt you physically/mentally, then she has no reason to hate him.



she can't control your actions, or his.

sit down and tell her to get over it.
just talk to your mom and force her too tell you whats really going on.

Ive had to do this with my mom about a GF, but it got better after.
your mother is worried for you.
she probably has past experiences that she just can't get over and she doesn't want the same thing to happen to u. good luck!! i hope u win!
if your question is if your mom keeping you apart, then yes.

if the question is why, maybe its because she feels threatened that your bf will become more important to you than she is. or maybe she just really doesn't like him.
Do u know what ur mom hates about him? maybe it is something u like, like his personality or something. i think u guys should still be friends, but just keep ur relationship close. i suggest u ask ur mom why she is keeping u guys apart. then, fix the problem and maybe things will be back to normal.
you need to sit her down and tell her how shes acting, ask WHY she hates him, what are her reason,s and if there are none, tell her its your boyfriend and you like him, if she has no reasons, then you should win the convo and the boy :D much luck.... but really, TELL HER! you got to!
yur mom is stubborn if she still doesent like this dude, have you actually introduced him to the family yet? try having a conference with yur mom and yur bf or something. i dont really know what else you could do unless u still just wanna talk to him behind yur moms back. good luck =D
Have a serious talk with your mother and ask her, "What if your mom keep you apart from Dad? How would you feel? What would you say? *pause and let her answer* You know love lasts forever, you can't keep me like this. I'm 16, sooner or later you have to let me choose my own path." Or something like that. Remember say it with passion and strong emotions. ^^
First of all, you are 16. Nowhere near being an adult. Your mother has every right to decide who you can see and who you shouldn't see. She has every right to snatch you out of any situation she deems unhealthy.

You need to concentrate on getting your education and building a life for yourself, not some boy.

You have the rest of your life to find Mr. Right and this boy will pass right on out of your life once you do reach adulthood.

It really gripes me that kids think they have all these rights. You have none other than the right to an education, a home, food in your belly and clothes on your back. Get a grip and listen to your Mother. There will come a time when you look back and wish you had.
This is atrocious!!!
You should ask her to justify her hate for him. Ask her why she is so against you being with him. I know she says he is no good, so ask her why she thinks that.

If she fails to give you any good reasons, I would then explain to her that she is free to do this now, but she is destroying your respect for her, and once you get to 18 there may be none left. If she continues doing this, you will end up resenting her.

What she is currently doing demonstrates she lacks respect for your intelligence, as she doesn't trust you to make a good choice in a guy.

There is nothing she can do to get him put in jail, so do not worry about that.



If it were me, and she could not justify why he is no good, I would tell her to back off and let me live my own life.