A Person's Frame of Thinking?

I just broke up with someone that jokingly talked about killing. His comments were suddle and far apart. For instance he said that he thought about killing his boss before. He also jokingly said something about my killing my daughter. I said that that was something I never thought about. He said that he used to be a medic in the Iraq war and came back in 2006. The night I moved out he asked me if I ever thought about killing somebody. The truth is there is no one that I have ever even come close to wanting to kill. Is the thought of killing someone a normal emotion. Am I overeacting by constantly thinking about what he said that night. Also he said that his boss makes him want to kill him. I have never been around someone that has thought like this. He had a control problem for instance I arranged the spices in the cabinet and he rearranged them. He said that the robe that I was wearing once should never be worn by a woman my age. These are just a few examples. One time he raced over and grabbed a pizza box out of my hands because he said that I did not wash my hands. We had other pizza. He calls his ex a b*** and seems at times to go from one extreme to the next. He said that when he grew up he never met his father, raised his mother, paid rent and light bills at a early age and ended up with another family that had lots of money.



He would lock the door to the room he shared any time he got mad at me.Needless to say what sort of disorder may he have. None of this behavior was normal to me!A Person's Frame of Thinking?
WOMANIZER for one. Stay as far away from him as you can. It is a researched fact that hormones are dispursed by humans and that is what draws you to him if you still feel drawn. Physical abuse is bad but what he does is mental abuse, even if it doesn't SEEM to be, by controlling and insulting you. thoughts of killing someone is NOT a natural animalistic trait unless it's to eat (such as cats killing birds); Thoughts of killing someone is also one of the aftermaths of war which is sad but you ARE IN HARMS WAY if you continue to be around this human being. One click in the brain chemestry (drink, joint, etc) could set him off and, we all know it takes two seconds to kill someone whether you regret the action afterward or not. YOU deserve non-violent, loving relations....take care of you.A Person's Frame of Thinking?
Nice blog, wrong forumA Person's Frame of Thinking?
This guy seems to enjoy saying and doing things for their shock value. It also appears that you seem to enjoy it to some extent. if you truly felt repulsed or scared or threatened by his words and /or actions ,you would not be with him and continue to subject yourself to the situation. There are many people mainly women who are masochists and want sadists for mates. I believe you have some masochistic tendencies in you though it is not certain if you are a total masochist just yet.In addition, there is a small possibility that the guy is suffering from P.T.S.D( post traumatic stress disorder) although I doubt it. You speak of his frame of mind but actually it is your frame of mind that needs to be considered especially since you need to ask if behavior like his is normal or if you are overacting. Think about it long and hard.