Should I leave my live in boyfriend?

Heres the thing....i may have been a little impulsive choosing my guy, or am I just too picky?

The guy-26 yrs old, good looking, works happily as a part time cashier.

His day is entirely consumed by video games, a few hours of part time work, and smoking pot.

He is extremely sensitive and I am very blunt, and sometimes abrasive. This causes lots of misunderstandings. I didnt know about his extreme gaming and drug habit until he moved in six months ago. He seriously downplayed his addictions. he also lives to party. He does not clean up at all, has done.dishes twice in six months, and completely ignores any messiness in the house. He spends his.money on games and pot. His mom still pays for his health,insurance.and.car insurance, also, his cell phone. He does not leave the house except for work. He is terrified of driving a car, so we are forced to live three blocks from his job.....forever.

Me, I am 22, have two jobs, one full time as a dept. Manager and the other as a pizza employee. I am in college and working toward a good life for myself. I am always working, hardly ever home.

the house is.mine, along with everything in it. I do not do any drugs nor drink.



the good parts about this guy, he is absolutely crazy over me, he is faithful to no end, he is good looking, and has strong morales. He helps out people in need, and.donates what.little money he has.



I am so unhappu, but am worried that my unhappiness is.only my being picky. Opinions on this guy?

I already know I should have noticed this stuff beforehand, so please no "you should have known" responses.Should I leave my live in boyfriend?
well its your life and you have to make decisions about it, so about things like this there is no such thing as too picky. if your unhappy, then there is no point in staying in the relationship. relationships supposed to make you happy. and obviously your not. and there is nothing wrong with that. tell him to shape up his act or get out.

if you dont do it now, youll have to do it later and it will only be harder. you dont want to spend the rest of your life caring for this man, do you?
Sorry but this guy doesn't seem that great at all. Only video games and drugs? Does he help you out at all? Pay any attention to you? Or is it just the drugs and the games and he's using you for a place to live and someone to pay for more stuff for him?Should I leave my live in boyfriend?
Oh, honey, DROP HIM!!! To many signs that he is immature and doesn't take much responsibility. He work just enough to get his drugs? You are only 22. Find someone YOU DESERVIE!
You want the brutal honest truth? You already know the answer. The reason he "adores" you is because you support everything else his mother does NOT. He's 26 and works part-time??? plays video games and addicted to "pot", you say?? Why would you want to put up with that 1 minute longer?? You stated you work 2 jobs, the house is yours and everything in it. Gather your self-esteem and do what your gut and head are telling you. You wouldn't be asking this question if you wanted him to stay. 2012 will hold extreme promise for you if you handle this in 2011. His mom will take care of him.Should I leave my live in boyfriend?
I would suggest to separate from him. Spend time away from each other. Address his issues, nicely tell him the situation and give him time to change his ways. If he has not then, I would try and look for another guy that have better qualities and will also be a great positive influence. Hope this helps:)