Girlfriend wants me to beat her up?

Not a troll, and not joking! I want to start off by saying I'm sorry if this is an inappropriate question!



I'm a woman. I'm with a guy. We are kinky.



I'm bisexual. He likes girls. Ergo, we chat to other women online and invite them into our homes and sometimes our hearts. We've had a few kinky poly-amorous relationships of varying intensities, but the most extreme things we've done with a secondary partner is a caning that left marks for a couple of days.



We're talking to a girl who is pretty into us, and we into her. She lives quite a distance, and so we've agreed that we won't meet up until we're pretty confident that there is potential. We've now set a date.



One of the fantasies that she wants to explore, and would love to include this weekend, is the following; she comes over as a friend with potential. I head out to get pizza, I come back, and she's making out with "my man" on the sofa. I go nuts and beat the crap out of her (her words not mine) and spend the rest of the evening torturing her with Mr. Man. She's literally begging us for this fantasy and I'm confident that she's serious about it.



The problem I have is that I've never actually been in any fights where I didn't genuinely want to kill the person I was fighting with. I don't know how to "tap into" the desire to beat someone up who I actually quite like. Tying her up and sexually torturing her I can do, but how do you "beat someone up" and hurt them without breaking there nose or something equally harsh?Girlfriend wants me to beat her up?
Meeting someone for alternative sex or scene play is extremely dangerous! The stranger is in danger because she doesn't know you, she's putting her life in your hands and trusting that you won't cause her serious harm. BUT you are also taking a huge risk. I know many people in real life and online in BDSM and I've heard horror stories of Doms and Dommes being set up by people they think are subs. All it takes is for her to report a rape, and with bruises, dna evidence and a really good sob story you and your husband could end up in jail and on the sex offender's registry.



I would STRONGLY recommend that you meet her in person for a casual dinner or coffee BEFORE engaging in sexual play. I would also recommend that you have her sign something that says simply that she understands the sexual nature of your relationship and that she releases you from any physical, emotional or mental responsibilities. It may seem like a bit much but it's a trust thing. You're not just meeting up for a simple screw... she's wanting you to be violent with her and that sends up huge red flags.Girlfriend wants me to beat her up?
what would happen if you tried to fulfill her fantasies witch would be a great time %26amp; things got out of hand? how well do you know this person? you could end up being arrested . you better think about this before you act good luck %26amp; i wish i could be thereGirlfriend wants me to beat her up?
I think the best torture would be to bind her and have a s3x marathon with your partner and her watching, craving to be included



Once in a while tease her, but dont let her orgasm
Just give her a few slaps and throw her around a little bit! Pull her hair and scratch her you could kind of wrestle her to the ground as well. and shout names at her!